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Stop-and-frisk can only work after real police reform

Wed, 15 May 2013 14:26:22 -0400

Stop-and-frisk can only work after real police reform

Physicists Show Time Flows Asymmetrically at the Electron Level | DiscoverMagazine.com

Wed, 15 May 2013 14:18:55 -0400

Physicists Show Time Flows Asymmetrically at the Electron Level | DiscoverMagazine.com

Minoan Civilization Originated in Europe, Not Egypt: Scientific American

Wed, 15 May 2013 13:30:03 -0400

Minoan Civilization Originated in Europe, Not Egypt: Scientific American

24 Harvard Student Groups: Graduating Jason Richwine ‘Debases All Of Our Degrees’

Mon, 13 May 2013 20:04:15 -0400

24 Harvard Student Groups: Graduating Jason Richwine ‘Debases All Of Our Degrees’: While I...

El Salvadorian Woman Is Dying Because She’s Been Denied The Abortion That Would Save Her Life

Mon, 13 May 2013 17:11:23 -0400

El Salvadorian Woman Is Dying Because She’s Been Denied The Abortion That Would Save Her Life: Y, si...

Mother's Day

Thu, 09 May 2013 20:11:37 -0400

I have to be honest. I hate Mothers’s Day. Father’s Day, for that matter, too. I know, I...

Stop-and-Frisk Under Fire | The Nation

Thu, 02 May 2013 15:03:27 -0400

Stop-and-Frisk Under Fire | The Nation: A great article, courtesy of the Nation.

Former Dallas Cowboy Tony Casillas, “I Played With Homosexuals” « CBS Dallas / Fort Worth

Thu, 02 May 2013 14:43:17 -0400

Former Dallas Cowboy Tony Casillas, “I Played With Homosexuals” « CBS Dallas / Fort Worth:...

Nevada Senator Comes Out As Senate Approves Repeal Of Same-Sex Marriage Ban

Tue, 23 Apr 2013 14:40:16 -0400

Nevada Senator Comes Out As Senate Approves Repeal Of Same-Sex Marriage Ban: now that’s a hell...

Judge to hear arguments on Michigan gay marriage ban

Thu, 07 Mar 2013 13:27:41 -0500

Judge to hear arguments on Michigan gay marriage ban

A wedding hall in Dallas tells a gay couple to take their business elsewhere.

Sat, 23 Feb 2013 15:59:55 -0500

A wedding hall in Dallas tells a gay couple to take their business elsewhere.: I know it’s...

Death Row Prisoner Larry Swearingen May Be Innocent. Do Texas Courts Care? | The Nation

Thu, 21 Feb 2013 10:53:01 -0500

Death Row Prisoner Larry Swearingen May Be Innocent. Do Texas Courts Care? | The Nation

Puerto Rican Supreme Court Upholds Ban On Same-Sex Adoption

Wed, 20 Feb 2013 19:27:52 -0500

Puerto Rican Supreme Court Upholds Ban On Same-Sex Adoption: Bullshit…

guardiancomment: Chelsea Welch, the US waitress who was fired...

Wed, 06 Feb 2013 16:42:21 -0500

guardiancomment:

Chelsea Welch, the US waitress who was fired after she posted a picture of a tip receipt on Reddit, wrote for us:

I was a waitress at Applebee’s restaurant in Saint Louis. I was fired Wednesday for posting a picture on Reddit.com of a note a customer left on a bill. I posted it on the web as a light-hearted joke.

This didn’t even happen at my table. The note was left for another server, who allowed me to take a picture of it at the end of the night.

Someone had scribbled on the receipt, “I give God 10%. Why do you get 18?”

I assumed the customer’s signature was illegible, but I quickly started receiving messages containing Facebook profile links and websites, asking me to confirm the identity of the customer. I refused to confirm any of them, and all were incorrect.

I worked with the Reddit moderators to remove any personal information. I wanted to protect the identity of both my fellow server and the customer. I had no intention of starting a witch-hunt or hurting anyone.

Now I’ve been fired.

The person who wrote the note came across an article about it, called the Applebee’s location, and demanded everyone be fired — me, the server who allowed me to take the picture, the manager on duty at the time, the manager not on duty at the time, everyone. It seems I was fired not because Applebee’s was represented poorly, not because I did anything illegal or against company policy, but because I embarrassed this person.

In light of the situation, I would like to make a statement on behalf of wait staff everywhere: We make $3.50 an hour. Most of my paychecks are less than pocket change because I have to pay taxes on the tips I make.

After sharing my tips with hosts, bussers, and bartenders, I make less than $9 an hour on average, before taxes. I am expected to skip bathroom breaks if we are busy. I go hungry all day if I have several busy tables to work. I am expected to work until 1:30am and then come in again at 10:30am to open the restaurant.

I have worked 12-hour double shifts without a chance to even sit down. I am expected to portray a canned personality that has been found to be least offensive to the greatest amount of people. And I am expected to do all of this, every day, and receive change, or even nothing, in return. After all that, I can be fired for “embarrassing” someone, who directly insults his or her server on religious grounds.

In this economy, $3.50 an hour doesn’t cut it. I can’t pay half my bills. Like many, I would love to see a reasonable, non-tip-dependent wage system for service workers like they have in other countries. But the system being flawed is not an excuse for not paying for services rendered.

I need tips to pay my bills. All waiters do. We spend an hour or more of our time befriending you, making you laugh, getting to know you, and making your dining experience the best it can be. We work hard. We care. We deserve to be paid for that.

I am trying to stand up for all of us who work for just a few dollars an hour at places like Applebee’s. Whether a chain steakhouse or a black-tie establishment, tipping is not optional. It is how we get paid.

I posted a picture to make people laugh, but now I want to make a serious point: Things like this happen to servers all the time. People seem to think that the easiest way to save money on a night out is to skip the tip.

I can’t understand why I was fired over this. I was well liked and respected at Applebee’s. My sales were high, my managers had no problems with me, and I was even hoping to move up to management soon. When I posted this, I didn’t represent Applebee’s in a bad light. In fact, I didn’t represent them at all.

I did my best to protect the identity of all parties involved. I didn’t break any specific guidelines in the company handbook – I checked. But because this person got embarrassed that their selfishness was made public, Applebee’s has made it clear that they would rather lose a dedicated employee than an angry customer. That’s a policy I can’t understand.

I am equally baffled about how a religious tithe is in any way related to paying for services at a restaurant. I can understand why someone could be upset with an automatic gratuity. However, it’s a plainly stated Applebee’s policy that a tip is added automatically for parties over eight like the one this customer was part of. I cannot control that kind of tip; it’s done by the computer that the orders are put into. I’ve been stiffed on tips before, but this is the first time I’ve seen the “Big Man” used as reasoning.

Obviously the person who wrote this note wanted it seen by someone. It’s strange that now that the audience is wider than just the server, the person is ashamed.

I have no agenda here. I seek no revenge against the note writer. I have no interest in exposing their identity, and, at this point, I’m not even sure I want my job back. I was just trying to make a joke, but I came home unemployed.

I’ve been waiting tables to save up some money so I could finally go to college, so I could get an education that would qualify me for a job that doesn’t force me to sell my personality for pocket change.

New Jersey Governor Vetoes Minimum Wage Increase

Mon, 28 Jan 2013 16:31:51 -0500

New Jersey Governor Vetoes Minimum Wage Increase: Who’s surprised?

BREAKING: Wyoming House Committee Defeats Marriage Equality Bill, Advances Domestic Partnerships

Mon, 28 Jan 2013 16:28:36 -0500

BREAKING: Wyoming House Committee Defeats Marriage Equality Bill, Advances Domestic Partnerships:...

Huge Breakthrough In HIV Research Brings Us Closer To A Vaccine

Fri, 04 Jan 2013 15:40:48 -0500

Huge Breakthrough In HIV Research Brings Us Closer To A Vaccine: This is wonderful news.

How Did the British Press Cover the American Revolution? - By Eliga H. Gould | Foreign Policy

Tue, 03 Jul 2012 18:13:22 -0400

How Did the British Press Cover the American Revolution? - By Eliga H. Gould | Foreign Policy

The Supreme Court Decision on Obama’s Health Care Law

Thu, 28 Jun 2012 19:26:54 -0400

The Supreme Court Decision on Obama’s Health Care Law: The Supreme Court largely let stand President...

Bronx Gay and Lesbian Center to Close After Being Crippled by Scam - DNAinfo.com New York

Thu, 28 Jun 2012 18:14:18 -0400

Bronx Gay and Lesbian Center to Close After Being Crippled by Scam - DNAinfo.com New York